And that’s the issue: the etiquette around conceded putts remains unwritten. Until now, that is. To avoid any future tears or fisticuffs, here are the do’s and don’ts of gimmes.

DO: Give anyone a putt who is out of the hole if it’s for more than par

Pace can be an issue in match play. This keeps things moving.

DON’T: Give any birdie putt

You want that red number on the scorecard, you got to earn it.

DON’T: Endlessly fumble change in your pocket praying your opponent will cave and give it to you

It’s unbecoming. It’s shameless. It’s pathetic.

DO: Be liberal with gimmes on the front, conservative on the back

Not only does this set an affable tone for the round, it has a hint of Machiavellianism sprinkled in: when your opponent needs to make a short putt down the stretch, the lack of reps puts extra pressure on the shot.

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DO: Be generous with your father-in-law

The man gave you the green light to marry his daughter. He deserves your eternal fealty.

DON’T: Be overzealous with your boss

Nothing screams ‘brown noser’ like conceding seven-foot sidehillers.

DON’T: Apologise for making your opponent putt

It comes off as insincere, especially if they miss. Plus, you don’t see basketball players patting a rival on the back after a turnover, or a pitcher telling a batter he’s sorry after a strikeout. In that same vein…

DON’T: Take it personal when an opponent makes you putt

If you feel like it’s a gimme, than go ahead and make it, knucklehead.

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DO: Putt when the shot is to win the match

This is a competition, after all. Victory is that much sweeter when the ball is retrieved from the cup.

DON’T: Agree to “good-good” on matching four-footers when down 2 holes or more

You’re missing an opportunity to get back into this thing. Moreover, turning down your opponent’s offer could throw them for a loop.

DO: Be stingy with shaky putters

Some feel obliged to show compassion on those with the yips. But do they return the favor when their tee shots soar 30 yards past yours, or their iron play is far more accurate? If anything, make those that struggle with the short game play it out.

DO: Concede the short putt that sends the match into OT

No one wants to win on a botched three-footer.

DON’T: Have a win-at-all-costs mentality

Chances are you’re playing against a friend or acquaintance. There’s a big difference between competitive spirit and being a ****. If you want to go all Suzann Pettersen over $5, that’s your prerogative. Just know you might be playing alone your next time out.

 

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By Ryan Herrington

Less than 24 hours after shedding tears of frustration and sadness at Missouri’s Boone Valley G.C., Erica Shepherd was crying again, only this time out of joy. The 16-year-old from Greenwood, Ind., had accomplished a lifelong golf dream by capturing the U.S. Girls’ Junior title, defeating Jennifer Chang in the 36-hole championship match, 3 and 2.

Growing up, Shepherd’s friend and golf mentor has been Leigh Anne Hardin, a former junior golf prodigy from Indiana who won the Girls’ Junior title in 1998. Shepherd’s middle name is Leigh, and the screen shot on Shepherd’s cellphone is a photo of Hardin with the Girls’ Junior trophy that has served as motivation.

“Ever since I was little, I’ve always told everyone when making my goals, this is the goal that I have to accomplish,” Shepherd said, her emotions obvious.

The ultimate victory came a day after one of the toughest wins of her young career. On the 19th hole of her semifinal match on Friday, Shepherd’s opponent, Elizabeth Moon, missed a three-foot birdie putt that would have given her the win. Before Shepherd, a high school senior-to-be could concede the tap-in par putt, Moon hastily pulled her ball back.

Afterward, Shepherd was upset with the reaction to what had happen on social media, much of it negative toward how she handled the situation. Shepherd said she would have conceded the putt and the pair could have played on, but the *Rules of Golf * prohibited her from doing so retroactively.

Trying to block out the emotions from Friday was going to be a challenge for Shepherd, but she was helped by the fact that her final opponent, Chang, is a good friend who came up to her before the start of their Saturday match with a message.

“I was on the putting green, and she just walked toward me and gave me a hug,” Shepherd said. “She just asked if I was OK, and I kind of broke down and started crying, then she gave me this whole speech about like how there was nothing I could have done about it, and that just really boosted me back up and got me to regroup.”

“I said, Forget about that,” Chang said. “Let’s have some fun. Just you and me, one-on-one. Let’s go for it.”

Erica Shepherd and Jennifer Chang talk as they walk off the third hole during the championship match at the 2017 U.S. Girls’ Junior. (Photo by Copyright USGA/Steven Gibbons)

Shepherd proceeded to jump to an early 2-up lead through five holes, an interesting spot for Chang, 17, a rising high school senior from Cary, N.C., as she had not trailed in any of her previous five matches. Chang bounced back, winning four of the next seven holes to gain a 1-up advantage. But Shepherd then won five of the final six holes in the morning to take a 3-up advantage into the afternoon 18.

Shepherd stretched her lead to 4-up with 12 to play, only to watch Chang cut her opponent’s edge to 1-up with five left. It was then that Shepherd seized the moment, winning the 32nd hole with a birdie (after Chang had missed a birdie effort of her own), then made birdie on the 34th hole to close out the match and the championship.

Afterward, Shepherd described a call she received the previous night from Hardin that helped calm her nerves and boost her confidence.

“She just told me she knew how I felt because she can relate to me caring too much about what other people think,” said Shepherd, who has verbally committed to play college golf at Duke, naturally where Hardin competed. “She told me to just be Erica, and to not let what other people were saying get in my head or distract me.”

Shepherd’s victory was a milestone of sorts as she became the first lefty to win the Girls’ Junior title in its 69-year history. She became the second left-handed female champion in USGA history, joining another Indiana native, Julia Potter, the 2013 and 2016 U.S. Women’s Mid-Amateur champ). Coincidentally, the last time Boone Valley hosted a USGA event was the 2007 U.S. Junior Amateur, won by another lefty, Cory Whitsett.

“I’m really proud of Erica,” Chang said. “She’s one of my best friends, and it’s a fun match with her. I mean, there’s that intensity, but it’s fun.”

“I was definitely down before that,” Shepherd said, “but as soon as I got on the tee, I was looking at the trophy, and I’m like, I have a chance to win the U.S. Girls’ Junior today, so I’m not going to let any of that get in the way.”

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